“Na man na!” “He is a man, he is a man.” These ennui driven statements have caused more potholes in our society than ever. It is like telling a boy to do as he
“Na man na!” “He is a man, he is a man.” These ennui driven statements have caused more potholes in our society than ever. It is like telling a boy to do as he likes. Parents focus on the daughters and forget sons. Hello, who will marry the daughters? Be careful what you say to your children or how you act discriminatory at home. Also teach boys about love, heartbreaks, disappointments and their responsibilities. Most of them are even sexually and socially harassed from childhood. It ends up affecting their lives because you told them ‘you be man’
A man is the head of the family. No living being is dragging this authority with men. What it simply means is you get what you give. You give love, respect, honesty, integrity. You get same from your wife and children and people around you. Take your time to build your home and understand your responsibility because it is between you and God.
But the biggest sweet problem you have now as a man is your own woman. Women are complex. To find your own woman and marry her. That’s the issue. Bible says, it is not good for a man to be alone. Not woman. Man. Read it again.
Children watch what their parents do. For instance, if a man batters his wife, both his daughters or sons will likely take after that and unfold the cruelty on their partners. Sometimes, it also has reverse effects on them. If a man hits his wife, the daughter marries a man and begins to bully him first to avoid what her mother suffered. Other vices can also be copied by children and if one is not careful, in the end, what you have are generations of societal nitwits. It is not only to bring money and shout up and down, what are you to your family? There are lot of handsome, God fearing, wealthy men totally humbly building their families. They know what they have with God. They are not even seeing instant pleasure, they are seeing the future. They are committing their lineage to everlasting faith.
Family meeting is very important. It starts from you and your girlfriend talking all the time and making plans till marriage. It continues between just you two till the first child. Women respond to your confidence and stronghold. Know who you are as a man. Do not allow the society infiltrate you into being a deplorable example. Don’t disappoint your Maker.
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